He started dating Christina Milian, an actress and singer, in 2009, and the two got married on September 4th of the same year. On February 17, 2010, The-Dream filed for divorce, and nine days later, Milian gave birth to their daughter, Violet. After the divorce was finalized in October 2011, he started dating Lydia Nam in 2012. Nam, who was expecting his child at the time, did not file charges despite his arrest in June 2013 on suspicion of domestic abuse. The-Dream was exonerated of all charges despite being detained once more in May 2014 on suspicion of punching, kicking, and strangling Lydia in April 2013. In July of 2013, Nam gave birth to his son